Episodes
The Perils of Leadership (with Timothy Khoo)
Oct. 4, 2022
EPISODE 58 In this special episode of the Leadership series, I share a conversation with a fellow interior pilgrim who had tasted the heights of success in leadership but found himself tumbling into the search for authentici…
Leadership: Role vs. Core Identity
Sept. 20, 2022
EPISODE 57 Have you ever been so identified with a role that you lose touch with who you are apart from it? Playing an important leadership role can occupy so much of our lives that we forget that our True Self is so much de…
What Your Leadership Script Is & Why It Matters
Sept. 6, 2022
EPISODE 56 Scripts are the unspoken silent guidelines that shape our thoughts, our beliefs, and our action which we learn from our interactions with our environment since our earliest days. Scripts are the lens through which…
Interior Life & Leadership
Aug. 16, 2022
EPISODE 55 We all know how important good leadership is, and many of us fear that we don't measure up when we have to lead. While there are many ways that we can grow to become more effective as a leader, we often fail to ap…
3 Reasons You Can't Find Your Calling
Aug. 2, 2022
EPISODE 54 If you have been searching for your calling or personal vocation and still feel that you lack clarity, have you wondered how you can help yourself gain clarity in this process? In this episode I talk about three …
Season 4 Round-up & A Leader's Spirituality
July 5, 2022
EPISODE 53 In this final episode to Season 4, I review what we've covered and once again provide an over-arching view of the thematic arcs of this podcast. I also talk about A Leader's Spirituality (ALS) , an online course t…
Performing vs Living Life Fully
June 28, 2022
EPISODE 52 (BONUS) When we are in performance mode we expect to be assessed, evaluated and we seek to impress. There are times when we need to be in performance mode but what if that's how we approach our whole life? We end…
Freedom from the Shame that Binds You
June 14, 2022
EPISODE 51 Many of us don't realise how much of a hold shame - specifically toxic shame - has over us. When shame is 'toxic', we don't just feel shame over what we do but we experience deep shame over WHO WE ARE. Toxic sha…
Building Inner Resilience in Stressful Times
May 31, 2022
EPISODE 50 Being our real selves can be difficult even when we are not under duress. How do we build the inner resilience to still act with authenticity even in times of stress and adversity? In this episode I discuss three…
Inner Child Healing & Healthy Relationships
May 17, 2022
EPISODE 49 When we lack integration in our own identity, we do not have the power to love ourselves or others well. The work of interior integration helps us to love not only much but also love others well . In this episode …
Loving Much vs Loving Well
May 3, 2022
EPISODE 48 Have you ever felt the frustration and bewilderment of why your love for someone pushes them away or why your beloved feels harmed by your best intentions? Loving Much ≠ Loving Well. We can love much and harm ours…
Inner Child Reparenting: Healing My Relationship with God & Self
April 19, 2022
EPISODE 47 Have you ever experienced a dissonance between knowing that you are loved and really FEELING that you are loved in your body? For the longest time I used to think there was something wrong with me because I couldn…
How Inner Child Healing Transformed Me
April 5, 2022
EPISODE 46 Just what kind of impact can healing your inner child make in your life? In this follow-up episode to the interview with Dr Jean Cheng, I share about three ways that inner child healing helped me increase my capac…
Inner Child Healing (with Dr Jean Cheng): Part 3
March 29, 2022
EPISODE 45 In this third and final part of the series on Inner Child Healing with Dr Jean Cheng, we talk about: - How do we begin to heal our inner child? What is inner child reparenting? - How does healing our relationship …
Inner Child Healing (with Dr Jean Cheng): Part 2
March 15, 2022
EPISODE 44 How did we learn to distrust our emotions? Or to disconnect from our inner knowing about our needs in order to keep pushing through to deliver what is expected of us, even if it harms us? In this second part of my…
Inner Child Healing (with Dr. Jean Cheng): Part 1
March 1, 2022
EPISODE 43 Who or what is my inner child? What is inner child healing and how does it help me in my interior journey? In this three part series on Inner Child Healing, clinical psychologist Dr. Jean Cheng and I delve into ho…
Enlarging Our Capacity for Authenticity
Feb. 15, 2022
EPISODE 42 Many of us long to be more authentic than we are able to be. We feel that our ability to be authentic is constrained by a lack of acceptance from other people. But what if we can increase our internal capacity to …
Authenticity & Integrity in Times of Scandal
Feb. 8, 2022
EPISODE 41 (BONUS) How do we maintain our course towards greater authenticity and integrity when our Church is rocked by scandal? In this podcast I talk about how important it is to acknowledge and include our emotions in ou…
Grounding Tips for Surviving Chinese New Year
Jan. 30, 2022
EPISODE 40 (BONUS) Are you stressed during Chinese New Year? Hate the feeling of having to give a "progress report" of your life to relatives who want to know about your marital/family status, work, studies etc? Here are so…
Thematic Arcs of Becoming Me (Getting ready for 2022)
Jan. 6, 2022
EPISODE 39 (BONUS) In this bonus episode I give a big picture overview of the thematic arcs in the Becoming Me Podcast and how they relate to the interior journey into authenticity. I also talk about what theme to expect in…
End of 2021 Sharing and Thank You
Dec. 28, 2021
EPISODE 38 (BONUS) This podcast episode is the audio version of a video I made for my clients, subscribers, and followers who have been growing with me and my work over 2021. I share about areas of personal and professional…
Behind the Scenes of Becoming Me (with Nicole Law)
Dec. 14, 2021
EPISODE 37 In this special episode, I take the hot seat and let fellow podcaster Nicole Law, host of nourishthesoul , interview me about my journey with Becoming Me in this first year. I share the story behind "the call" for…
Authenticity or Belonging?
Nov. 30, 2021
EPISODE 36 Do you ever feel like you have to choose between being true to yourself (authenticity) and being accepted by others (belonging)? For many people, this internal conflict between our need for authenticity and our ne…
Motivational Design and Personal Vocation (with Dr Joshua Miller PhD): Part 3
Nov. 16, 2021
EPISODE 35 What is Motivational Design and how does it give us clues to the unique way we are called to live, work, love and serve? This is the last of three episodes featuring an interview with Dr. Joshua Miller (PhD), Foun…