Season 4

3 Reasons You Can't Find Your Calling

Aug. 2, 2022

EPISODE 54 If you have been searching for your calling or personal vocation and still feel that you lack clarity, have you wondered how you can help yourself gain clarity in this process? In this episode I talk about three …

Season 4 Round-up & A Leader's Spirituality

July 5, 2022

EPISODE 53 In this final episode to Season 4, I review what we've covered and once again provide an over-arching view of the thematic arcs of this podcast. I also talk about A Leader's Spirituality (ALS) , an online course t…

Performing vs Living Life Fully

June 28, 2022

EPISODE 52 (BONUS) When we are in performance mode we expect to be assessed, evaluated and we seek to impress. There are times when we need to be in performance mode but what if that's how we approach our whole life? We end…

Freedom from the Shame that Binds You

June 14, 2022

EPISODE 51 Many of us don't realise how much of a hold shame - specifically toxic shame - has over us. When shame is 'toxic', we don't just feel shame over what we do but we experience deep shame over WHO WE ARE. Toxic sha…

Building Inner Resilience in Stressful Times

May 31, 2022

EPISODE 50 Being our real selves can be difficult even when we are not under duress. How do we build the inner resilience to still act with authenticity even in times of stress and adversity? In this episode I discuss three…

Inner Child Healing & Healthy Relationships

May 17, 2022

EPISODE 49 When we lack integration in our own identity, we do not have the power to love ourselves or others well. The work of interior integration helps us to love not only much but also love others well . In this episode …

Loving Much vs Loving Well

May 3, 2022

EPISODE 48 Have you ever felt the frustration and bewilderment of why your love for someone pushes them away or why your beloved feels harmed by your best intentions? Loving Much ≠ Loving Well. We can love much and harm ours…

Inner Child Reparenting: Healing My Relationship with God & Self

April 19, 2022

EPISODE 47 Have you ever experienced a dissonance between knowing that you are loved and really FEELING that you are loved in your body? For the longest time I used to think there was something wrong with me because I couldn…

How Inner Child Healing Transformed Me

April 5, 2022

EPISODE 46 Just what kind of impact can healing your inner child make in your life? In this follow-up episode to the interview with Dr Jean Cheng, I share about three ways that inner child healing helped me increase my capac…

Inner Child Healing (with Dr Jean Cheng): Part 3

March 29, 2022

EPISODE 45 In this third and final part of the series on Inner Child Healing with Dr Jean Cheng, we talk about: - How do we begin to heal our inner child? What is inner child reparenting? - How does healing our relationship …

Inner Child Healing (with Dr Jean Cheng): Part 2

March 15, 2022

EPISODE 44 How did we learn to distrust our emotions? Or to disconnect from our inner knowing about our needs in order to keep pushing through to deliver what is expected of us, even if it harms us? In this second part of my…

Inner Child Healing (with Dr. Jean Cheng): Part 1

March 1, 2022

EPISODE 43 Who or what is my inner child? What is inner child healing and how does it help me in my interior journey? In this three part series on Inner Child Healing, clinical psychologist Dr. Jean Cheng and I delve into ho…

Enlarging Our Capacity for Authenticity

Feb. 15, 2022

EPISODE 42 Many of us long to be more authentic than we are able to be. We feel that our ability to be authentic is constrained by a lack of acceptance from other people. But what if we can increase our internal capacity to …

Authenticity & Integrity in Times of Scandal

Feb. 8, 2022

EPISODE 41 (BONUS) How do we maintain our course towards greater authenticity and integrity when our Church is rocked by scandal? In this podcast I talk about how important it is to acknowledge and include our emotions in ou…

Grounding Tips for Surviving Chinese New Year

Jan. 30, 2022

EPISODE 40 (BONUS) Are you stressed during Chinese New Year? Hate the feeling of having to give a "progress report" of your life to relatives who want to know about your marital/family status, work, studies etc? Here are so…

Thematic Arcs of Becoming Me (Getting ready for 2022)

Jan. 6, 2022

EPISODE 39 (BONUS) In this bonus episode I give a big picture overview of the thematic arcs in the Becoming Me Podcast and how they relate to the interior journey into authenticity. I also talk about what theme to expect in…