Once we begin our inner healing journey, we are able to discern better and work in alignment with our core. To find out more, I invite you to listen to my 100th Episode | Why You Can't Discern Mission Without Healing Listen to the full episode: Website: https://www.becomingmepodcast.com Spotify: https://spoti.fi/3u2uX9n…
When does sin begin? The more important question to ask is how secure is our relationship with God? If we are unable to feel safe and secure in God's love, we will be fixated on sin and how not to sin, when the focus should be on the face of…
I often speak about the joy that comes with freedom. We need inner healing to be our foundation because when we are more healed, we are more integrated in our cores to recognise who we truly are. This is the joy. This is the freedom that no one can take…
Choosing a new spiritual director can be daunting. How do we go about discerning who to ask and how do we know if he/she is the right person for us? In this live I offer 5 practical considerations that can help you in your discernment as you look for a…
We may desire to discern our mission and purpose, but if we are still resisting the reality of who we truly are, how can we possibly be open to the path God is inviting us to walk? We need to be able to accept and love ourselves first, then we…
What is this liberation or freedom that we long for? It is the freedom to be our true selves without the fear of abandonment. It is the freedom to be unapolegtically ourselves, without any fear or shame of what others may think of us. I invite you to listen to…
In this episode, I share about two different stories or examples from different times in my life. Stories, where both scenarios were similar, but my response was starkly different. To find out more about how my long journey into integration and wholeness has helped respond in alignment with my true…
How do you know if it's time to change spiritual director or counselor/therapist? In this live I explain why it is important to be able to tell when it's time to change and three indicators that can help you assess if it's time to change your spiritual director or therapist.…
We live in a high stress environment and our bodies may constantly be in hypervigilence. This means that we are usually disconnected from our internal states. This sense of disconnectednes is everywhere. How can we then learn to develop secure attachment as adults? Find out more on Episode 98 |…
Why are we so often triggered by specific comments people make about us? Perhaps, on some level, we believe it to be true. If we are grounded in our core, we are better able to see what is true about ourselves. When this happens, we will be less triggered and…
The deeper we go into this journey of authenticity and integration, the more we are able to work through the different layers of ourselves. This becomes more instinctive as we progress. We find it second-nature to pause and give ourselves space to respond, instead of reacting. Find out more on…
When we look at all the different parts of the interior journey we can get overwhelmed. It is essential to know our “home base” - the fulcrum of a lever, the hub of the wheel which is the STILL SPOT around which everything else turns and moves. This is the…
Are you at the point of your journey where you feel overwhelmed by memories or feelings of vulnerability with certain groups of people? If you are, first acknowledge that this is grace. Grace has brought you to this point. I invite you to listen Episode 96 | 3 Steps To…
A huge part of my healing journey includes Miko, my dog. Miko has been, and continues to teach me how to be unabashedly myself and to ask shamelessly, in the strong and deep knowing that I am loved. Find out more on Episode 95 | Healing Through Delight, Beauty, Rest…
In this Episode of the Becoming Me Podcast, I share about three things that helped me in my healing journey. I also share about the shame and guilt I felt during this season of struggling to learn how to rest, play and just delight in the things that gave me…
In this video I look at three blocks that disciples trying to deepen our relationship with God often encounter. We often think of these as spiritual blocks, but in my experience, they have a lot to do with attachment trauma. Spirituality rests on the bedrock of our humanity, it is…
When your interior journey begins to deepen it needs to be nurtured with more silence and solitude than before. You will need to choose between this new inner life and the various other things you fill your time with. Find out more on Episode 94 | When Your Interior Journey…
What is safe companionship and why do we all long for it? When we find someone with whom we can be our authentic selves, we start to feel safe? Do we have someone who makes us feel safe? Can we perhaps be that safe space for ourselves? I invite you…
No matter what our vocation is in this world, we have to learn to enjoy what we have and build that secure trust with ourselves and with God. Once we do that, we are able to be held safely. Find out more on Episode 93 | Loneliness In Singlehood and…
For many aspiring disciples of Christ, “self-care” is a guilt inducing word. We think it is the opposite of laying down our lives and thus is at most a concession for our weakness. How do we see this problem through the lens of interior integration? In this video I offer…
Do you have the support or a loving space to make the journey into discovering who you are outside of your communities, families and relationships? Could you perhaps be that support for someone who is also making this journey into wholeness? I invite you to listen to Episode 92 |…
When we are able to grow in freedom and authenticity, we are also able to love authentically. Our decisions and life will also be impacted and the outcome also will become more loving. I invite you to listen to Episode 91 | "Doing The Right Thing" vs Being Authentically Loving…
Forgiveness - like love - is a religious and spiritual precept that we struggle to integrate into real life and many of us end up spiritualising forgiveness which harms us instead of binding up our wounds. In this video I share three signs that may indicate you are spiritualising forgiveness…
What does being authentically loving look like? Loving authentically and freely requires us to look, not just at the act, but what's going in me, as I love in this situation. It is about the person, and not just the act. Find out more on Episode 91 | "Doing The…