Season 11

Nov. 17, 2025

Grappling with Spiritual Abuse and Trauma in the “DNA” of the Catholic Church

Episode 161 What if the reason spiritual abuse is so rampant yet unrecognised in the Church is because these kind of dynamics have always been part of the way the Church existed in the world? In this deeply personal episode, I talk about my journey awakening to and grappling with the legacy of spir…
Nov. 3, 2025

Reconsidering Holiness: Saints, Trauma, and Spiritual Abuse

Episode 160 We know we’re called to holiness, that we’re called to be saints. But have we really grappled with what holiness means? With what becoming saints really mean? In my latest podcast episode I share how I have come to ask these questions in much more earnest after learning about how even c…
Oct. 20, 2025

When Enmeshment Trauma Becomes Spiritually Abusive

Episode 159 In today's episode, we explore the intersection of enmeshment trauma and spiritual abuse. If you're new to the concept, enmeshment trauma occurs in families that are too close to the point where individual boundaries and self-identity are compromised. This episode delves into the signs …
Oct. 6, 2025

Healing and Repenting from Abuse of Conscience

Episode 158 In this episode, I continue the discussion on spiritual abuse by focusing on Abuse of Conscience. I share my personal journey of discovering this subtle yet pervasive form of abuse, how it affected my life, and my path to recognising my own role in it. I discuss how my own spiritual tra…
Sept. 22, 2025

Using Power and Influence in Non-Spiritually Abusive Ways

Episode 157 In this episode, I build on my last episode’s discussion of how culture, disembodied faith, and trauma contribute to an environment conducive to spiritual abuse. I delve into the responsible use of power and influence, sharing personal insights and experiences. I discuss how, even with …
Sept. 8, 2025

How Culture, Disembodied Faith and Trauma Facilitate Spiritual Abuse

Episode 156 In this episode, I delve into three factors that facilitate spiritual abuse, especially within the experience of many Catholics. Reflecting on a personal experience during a silent retreat, I explore how complex trauma, disembodied faith, and cultural influences create environments wher…
Aug. 24, 2025

Spiritual Abuse in Evangelisation and Discipleship (with Paul Fahey)

Episode 155 In this episode, Paul Fahey joins me in a pivotal conversation about spiritual abuse within the context of evangelisation and church communities. We share our journey from years of traditional evangelisation to a deeper understanding of the Great Commandments and how they relate to the …
Guest: Paul Fahey